We got it out of hiding, rearranged furniture, and found it a home. One glorious day he asked me "so do you want to refinish it or paint it or something?"
My heart jumped. Not only did I have permission to refinish it, it was HIS idea and he was open to anything at all that I wanted to do; even if that meant painting pink hearts all over it. Not that I would ever, ever paint pink hearts all over anything. {Ick}
I posted this pic to Instagram and polled my friends. The overwhelming consensus was stain, not paint. That sort of scared me, since I'm not exactly very familiar with stain, but I knew that if the option was available it would not stay this golden oak color forever.
I lugged one part of the stand to the local Woodcraft store and asked for suggestions, got the go-ahead from my doctor, and went to work. They recommended the products and let me double check them against the food safety data sheets - you know - since there is no guarantee it will not get chewed on.
The Hubs and Squirt left town to visit Munchie for her birthday, and I got to work. After a light sanding with my new bff {the palm sander} and wiping it down for dust, it was time to get to some serious business.
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| Yes, I wore protection. No one wants to breathe particulates or smell grossness all night long, especially while pregnant. |
The nice folks at Woodcraft recommended I use a sanding sealer. It went on smooth and easy. Honestly, if I had done nothing else I was so impressed with the shellac they recommended that the golden oak almost looked good enough for me to leave just like that.
I didn't actually know the piece had been "signed" until I flipped it over and did a coat of shellac on the bottom. Seriously, this is pretty much the coolest thing ever. I think it has "family heirloom" written all over it. In that moment I was really glad to be refinishing the piece to something we love enough to keep forever.
I'd read about a dozen blog posts about gel stains, and everyone suggested using men's socks. Then I stumbled on another site which said to use smooth knit material. I didn't really feel like spending any more money, so I grabbed an old t-shirt and chopped it to bits. It's one we got free at a university basketball game that I was previously using as an art smock for the kids, so it was definitely disposable in my eyes. And free. I always love free.
It's true, what they say. Gel stain really does look like chocolate pudding. I went to the store with the intent of getting the Java color people rave about so much, but half our "affordable" furniture is that Ikea espresso fake stuff and I thought that Java would make the cradle look, I don't know, less real alongside everything else. After a long while debating and texting photos of the stain samples I chose to go with the Georgian Cherry.
This stuff seriously does go a long way. Like, a long way. I had read a few posts where people wiped it on thick then wiped off the excess and said it was all good. That was NOT my experience. I found that light, even coats were the way to go. I had visible streaks after the first coat since I let it sit for a minute before trying to wipe some away and it took a good four more coats to even out the finish fairly well. If I were to do it again, I'd rather do the first coat very thin and very even, even if it meant I had to add an extra coat or two to get the color intensity I wanted.
All the other bloggers out there are right. The first coat looks atrocious. I almost cried thinking I'd ruined the Hubs special piece but decided not to judge until it was all done.
This is where I had not thought things through very well. Most people wear plastic gloves under the mens socks they use to rub on the stain. This is a very good idea. Since I didn't, I had to find a way to clean myself up. I used regular canola oil from my kitchen to dissolve the stain and clean my hands.
Ha! Like how pink my hands are from all the scrubbing? My fingers and nails actually looked better after multiple coats because I got better at keeping it off my skin and was more efficient using the oil to get the stain off.
I wanted to cry a little bit with every coat. I just had a vision in my mind that did not match what I saw before me.
Then suddenly it started to improve. After 5 coats on all sides of the cradle I did the same thing to the stand {in the background, still golden oak here}.
Then I went for the pieces that keep it all together.
I let the whole thing sit for a week and today jumped in with the polyurethane coating. It's almost done and I'm so excited to share the finished product. That will take a few days I fear, but rest assured, it is coming and {I think} it is glorious. My life is becomming eat, sleep, and craft for baby. I could get used to this.















